This Months LookBook

I‚Äôm thinking of making this a regular feature on my blog.¬† Anyone else tired of their ‚Äėnice‚Äô clothes sitting in the wardrobe for months on end, waiting patiently to be worn on a night out, only to be overtaken by something else bought recently because you feel like you‚Äôve got nothing to wear!?

Well, yes I am completely guilty of it.¬† So I‚Äôve decided to wear my ‚Äėnice‚Äô clothes all week long including for work, including my ‚Äėnice‚Äô shoes as I feel its only fair to my wardrobe!

If you follow my Instagram feed, you‚Äôll know that I love to play dress up and I really enjoy styling an outfit and putting it together.¬† Not only that, it makes me feel good, so who doesn’t want to feel good all the time?

Summer especially, gives us the opportunity to experiment even more with colour, bold prints and styles which are a little more daring.  I’ve really enjoyed my outfits this month and am trying to incorporate as much colour as possible.  The best part is also finding little gems in your wardrobe that you’ve long forgotten and styling them into modern and on trend outfits.  And this is probably why I find it so hard to throw things away!  Here are my favs from this month.


¬†It would only be right to start this blog post with a nod to the perfect summer bag, and the straw beach bag trend is very much underway. Its a gang I‚Äôve wanted to be in for ages but couldn’t find the ‚Äėright‚Äô one, until this!¬† I spotted it at a friends house and I immediately knew I wanted it too!¬† I thought she was going to say it was mega expensive but its from Primark and a bargain at ¬£8! ¬† It’s straw, massive, has a zip, has pom poms and is pink, whats not to love!?


 I have had so many compliments about these trousers!  They are beautiful and an absolute steal at £14 from Florence and Fred at Tesco.  Every time I wear them, I get asked where they are from and I’ve had lots of the same comments on Instagram.  They went like Nutella on a crepe with this beautiful mesh bodysuit from Boo Hoo.  This was also my first time wearing a bodysuit and it definitely wont be my last, such a lovely addition to an outfit, they add an element of class and the shape you get from them is brilliant because it makes your outfit look svelte.  My rose gold metallic shoes are from Peacocks, a regular feature on my page and a lovely finishing touch.


I have had these dress for about 6 years, I love it!  I first wore it to one of my oldest best friends wedding.  Again, I have had a lot of people ask about this dress, its so colourful and you would never fail to feel summery wearing it.  It’s from Dorothy Perkins, the cut is perfect and nips you in at the waist and the length is just right.  I teamed it with these gorgeous lace up shoes from Matalan.


Black is the new black.¬† And black clothes can definitely feel summery.¬† This dress reminded me of a flamenco dress with its flared skirt, and the feather like tassels at the bottom add a feminine touch.¬† This dress is from Very, and the high neck also adds a smart feel which is why I felt I could wear it for work.¬† I team it with this B-A-Baracus, Pity the Fool (The A Team for all you youngsters!) multi chain necklace.¬† Again, this is such a versatile necklace, Ive had this for about 3 years and wear it all the time.¬† It goes with anything and adds instant va va voom.¬† It’s from Accessorize.


Ugh, I love this skirt!  I am falling more and more in love with full midi skirts.  They tick so many boxes for me; instant glamour, sexy, right length, suits any body shape and they suit any colour and print.  This one is from H&M and has an almost scuba like feel to it.  The print is timeless and is also goes with heels or flats.  Annnddd Рit has pockets!  An absolute bonus!  I love pockets and if I’m being honest, I get even more excited about buying something if I know it has pockets!  My top is from ASOS and is wrap around, so it went perfectly with this skirt.  My shoes, now these beauties are a new addition and are from Matalan.  They are sling back flats and the reason I love them is for the shape at the front.  I think this style is going to be big big big this summer and we’ll see lots of girls ditching their much loved heels for these stylish and comfy flats.


When the weather is supposed to be like Summer, but it hits the skids, I tend to retreat back to trousers and long sleeves, but I don’t want to feel like I completely going back to hibernation.¬† For this look I teamed this gorgeous mustard H&M fine knit long sleeve top with these gorgeous navy cropped Primark trousers – these are new and are only ¬£8 – they also come in a variety of colours!¬† Go get!¬† To add the My Wardrobe Utopia edge, I teamed with my trusty leopard print heels from Peacocks.¬† Another go to accessory which instantly makes me feel me.

Staying on the leopard print theme, I teamed this top from Primark, which has lace edging at the top with these fab cream trousers from Dunnes department store.  This look is a little more conservative but is perfect fi you have meetings or want to look professional but still have that stylish edge.  Teamed with heels it works perfectly for those colder July days.


This outfit was my perfect throwback.¬† To a time when ombre was not only in your hair but also on your clothes.¬† To me, it still looks really trendy and thankfully the trend wasn‚Äôt ‚Äėoverdone‚Äô to the point where you get sick of it and then it ends up looking unfashionable. ¬† I bought this beauty about 3 years ago and still love it very much, its from Primark and I team mine with a gold better for that mediterranean vibe. It goes really well with flats too, so if you want to wear something to make you feel glam but not too over the top (question – can glam ever be over the top!¬† Que pondering emoji!).


I mentioned this on my Instagram feed.¬† I love belts!¬† I used to be obsessed with them when I was younger and no outfit was complete without a belt. Even if the outfit didn’t need a belt and didn’t have belt loops, a belt was still present! ¬† However, this is my first chunky belt purchase for a while.¬† Its the perfect addition and is by Ralph Lauren.¬† I cannot wait to wear this more and more and by styling it here one cold June day, made me realise that it is an all year round belt.¬† I cant wait to team this with a fine knit sweater, blue jeans, some white pumps and big sunnies.¬† I love summer, but this very concept makes me excited for Autumn!

Debs Xo

It’s not a diet…its a lifestyle

Brain Fud

Hey Sunshines!

I was recently delighted to be a guest blogger for Brian Fud, creators of a delicious new energy drink.  My published article is below, hope you enjoy the read!

You can view my published article here:    and also find Brain Fud on Twitter @BrainFud and Instagram @ Twitter or their website:


I love strong brand names, the kind that when you hear it, you know exactly what it stands for. ¬†After a long process and many years of going back and forth with diets, exercise and weight loss, I am now at a place in my mind (not including the odd ‘off’ day or two!) where I realise that what I get out is what I put in.

I was therefore delighted when a fantastic company called Brain Fud (Instagram @BrainFud and Twitter @BrainFud),  approached me to write an article around the topic of motivation and health.   Brain Fud are the proud creators of a natural energy drink, and as those who follow me know, I am all for fresh and funky!

When I read the email from Brain Fud, I immediately knew what I wanted to write about…balance.

Where it all started – with funky trainers


I know what you’re thinking…not another blog post bleating on about making the right decisions, eating healthy and making good choices. ¬†Well, in a way it is, but with a difference.

I don’t preach and I don’t expect anyone to have the same approach and ideologies to food and exercise as I do. ¬†We are all individual and we all have our own views and ways of making things work for ourselves, thats what makes us human. ¬†But what I do like to think, is that I can talk a little from experience.

The subject of lifestyle can be controversial. ¬†We all know someone who is being criticised for being too thin, too large, too un-healthy, too fit and can’t let go, vegans, gluten free and those on some weird and wonderful detox, ya know, the kind whereby you eat cauliflower 4 times a day and loose 10 stone by the end of week 1…

I believe that you have to find what works for you. ¬†I also believe that you can be either too one way or the other and the most important word is therefore ‘balance’. ¬†When it comes to lifestyle, the most important aspect of course is health. ¬†This comes into play whether you are under or over weight and it is so important that it is priority number 1.

I myself was always on the larger side of ok. ¬†And in fact I wasn’t ok and at the age of 22 I had high blood pressure, could barely run for 3 minutes and was 2 3/4 stone heavier than I am now. ¬†Fast forward 11 (ahem) years and my life couldn’t be more different from where it was then. ¬†When I look back, the craziest part of it was that I had more ‘guilt’ about what I ate then, than I do now, ¬†and I think thats because I knew if I didn’t get it under control, it would end up controlling me.

For Me,¬† Goals¬†and Treats¬†keep my mind ‘balanced’.¬† One of my first 1/2 marathons.


Along with a radical change to diet, I was also very very honest with myself.  There was no more avoiding the scales, mirrors or ingredients about what I was shovelling into my mouth. I also found running, which has now become one of my great loves.  I have learnt so much, but more importantly I am still learning.

The biggest thing I have learnt is to find what works for me. ¬†Whether it be a run in the morning in order that I can enjoy a dirty burger on a Saturday night or having treats on the weekend because I know that’s now not my norm. ¬† Don’t get me wrong, if this isn’t you then that’s cool too and there are days when this isn’t me either.

The thing which has the biggest part to play here is moderation and making those metaphorical scales equal.  As long as you are healthy and happy and have found the answer to your own; exercise + diet = harmony, then I salute you.   Your mind has a massive part to play in this.  How you view yourself and how you think others view you too, so keeping your mind balanced is vital, this includes finding a happy medium between keeping yourself on track and motivated whilst also finding a happy medium in order that you can enjoy yourself.

After all, the biggest judgement comes from ourselves and if you can find your inner parity, then stick to it. ¬†Have that greasy fry up on a Sunday, have that choccie bar in the afternoon and have the odd occasional cry when you feel like you’re just not getting there. ¬†¬†Just don’t unpack your suitcase and stay there because you deserve to have it all and thats when things spiral out of control. ¬†Kick your heels and dust yourself down and pick up where you left off.

Everyday brings the awakening of a new start and a new opportunity, so embrace it to the fullest.

Love Debs Xo



Lashes for Days


People often talk about ¬†‘must have’ make up essentials, and for me, mascara is something which will always be a staple in my kit. ¬† Finding the right mascara is so hard, and I find it as¬†tough as searching for¬†the perfect foundation.

I’d be interested to know how you like your lashes to look. ¬†Do you like the natural look and go for 1 or 2 coats, or do you like full on luscious lashes with enough coats to hang wallpaper?

I’m an all or nothing kinda gal myself. ¬† I like multiple coats to make my lashes really stand out. ¬†I also like lots of texture, nothing too thin but equally nothing too clumpy. ¬†I ¬†like my mascara brush to be quite thick to apply the coats equally but in good volume.


I have tried so many over the years, its crazy! ¬†I’m always in search of the perfect mascara and being a total make up addict, this has been an enjoying search I admit.

I have total love for my current mascara and I have now been using it for over a year.  This one is by Rimmel and is called Extra Super Lash.  Its really lightweight, without being wishy washy (polite words for thin and rubbish on application!) and the brush is the perfect size.  Not so tiny that you can hardly apply anything and not so big that you end up feeling like your applying your mascara with a broom.

I apply about 4 coats, and it gives me the look that I love. ¬†Lash separation whilst still looking full and extended perfection. ¬† Whats even better is that this mascara gives that ‘false eyelash’ look without the need to fake it. ¬†I have had a lot of people ask me what mascara I use, and they are always pleasantly surprised when I tell them its Rimmel, as opposed to a really expensive designer brand.

Thats the beauty of high street brands, they have gems like this that shine and we can experience make up perfection without the high end price tag.  That means more pennies for more amazing products!

I can’t recommend this product enough. ¬†If you love full on lashes then this is definitely for you!

Debs Xo


Looks of the Month


I love playing dress up. ¬†I’ve decided that its something we never really grow out of, only grow in to.No matter what the occasion I absolutely love piecing an outfit together, sometimes I give it lots of thought, other times I like to think effortlessly (polite word for those can’t be bovvered days!). ¬†But one thing is certain, I absolutely love to feel and look my best.


Image conscious? Perhaps.  Fashion obsessed?  Absolutely.  Hey, its fun and I really believe that clothes and accessories are something to be celebrated.  I have said it before, that I feel how you present yourself is a total reflection of you.  It speaks a thousand words before you say one, and your outfits are like your uniform.


They don’t have to conform, they don’t even have to be ‘in trend’ ¬†they just have to be you.

One particular outfit got me thinking about this, this week. ¬†It was the blue midi skirt and rose gold shoe combo. ¬†Before leaving the house I suddenly thought, um am I a bit too dressy for work? ¬†I even threw a pair of ‘dressed down’ shoes in the car just in case I couldn’t pluck up the courage to wear the outfit in full. ¬†However, I got in the car and thought – no, I am absolutely going to wear this. ¬†What is wrong with being dressy? ¬†And what is wrong with wanting to getting a little glammed up? ¬†It doesn’t have to be for a night out, you could just be popping to the shops but if it makes you feel good then do it.

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Fashion is to be celebrated and to be appreciated.  It expresses you and I love that.  I makes us feel better, makes us feel good and makes us feel confident.  And I love that too.


Here this is a round up of a few of my favourite looks from the month.

So get your glad rags on and show the world what you are about.  Even if you are just popping out for a pint of milk!

Debs Xo

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Testing, Testing….123 #model


So…I don’t profess to be a ‘model’, at all in fact. ¬†What defines the word anyways? ¬†To me, the evolution of image and our ever-growing acceptance of many different visuals of the human body means that the term ‘model’ can include and embrace art and beauty in a vast array of ways. ¬†And I think that’s just fabulous.

I love my blog, it gives me the opportunity to embrace what I love – fashion. ¬†I have worked hard over the years to love my body and accept myself for who I am. ¬†I don’t think I am 100% there yet but I have made vast improvements in my thought processes since my youth, trust me. ¬† What my blog allows me to do is express myself and to learn to love myself, and what is wrong with that? ¬†Nothing at all.

Social media, allows us to think that blogs and people taking endless selfies (myself included) are vain and self-indulgent. ¬†For some people that may be true, but I think that there are a lot of people like myself who suffer from confidence issues and use this platform as a way to be a little extrovert, have the opportunity to ‘model’ where in days gone by wouldn’t have been considered, have fun most importantly embrace fashion for the everyday lady or guy.

You’d be forgiven to think that when looking at my Instagram page, those little squares of modesty are a reflection of someone who is totally at ease with herself, however in my mind I am allowing myself to feel ok about myself and to think ‘yeah’ I can allow myself think I look ok today. ¬†Too often we fall into bad habits of thinking that if we do this, we are far too self-absorbed. ¬†But what ever happened to self-love? ¬†What happened to looking in the mirror and thinking, yeah I look good and I feel happy about myself? ¬† It unfortunately gets overtaken with Hmm yeah you look alright but….

I am all for changing this perception. ¬†It’s not a happy nor healthy place to be and it’s not something I would promote to anyone. ¬†Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we should go around checking ourselves out at every window and car wing mirror Grease style. ¬†But I am saying that we all deserve to feel beautiful and feel good about ourselves, no matter who we are, what we look like and whatever our definition of a model is.

Social media gets a bad wrap, and to be fair sometimes it deserves it. ¬†In the modern world it has created a lot of negatives and there are far to many to go into here. ¬†BUT there are some positives. ¬†A massive one is the evolution of the blogger, now how cool is it that you can become an icon, a brand rep, a role model, a model and not have to fit into what used to be a stereotypical box? ¬†We’ll always have supermodels and hallelujah¬†for that, ¬†nothing gets me more hooked than fashion week and the supermodel is an icon to behold and long may it continue. ¬†But I think that it is so revolutionary cool that us everyday mortals can also have a little snippet of the glamour.

So to this end, I attended a ‘model’ school. ¬†I wanted to get some tips on how to style and pose for my blogging photos and most importantly how to feel comfortable in front of camera. ¬†I am ok, ahem, no let me change that, I am very happy with the results and I throughly enjoyed the day. ¬†Because if you are happy and doing what you love, you are beautiful anyway.

The Model School was courtesy of Impact Modelling in Cornwall which is run by the lovely Juliet Matthews.  I had a fantastic day and we did role play, which is great for getting your confidence up and feeling better about speaking in front of a group of people and also in front of the camera.

There was a lovely make up artist on hand to make you up if you wanted it and also a fantastic hairdresser.  I did my make up for the day and the hairstylist curled it for me, I was so happy with the look.

We also got the opportunity to do a modelling shoot which included single and group shots. ¬†Emma of Griffin Photography styled and shot our photos, she was incredible and I felt entirely comfortable in front of Emma’s camera. ¬†Feeling at ease when you’re at the end of a lens isn’t an easy thing to do, but Emma made me feel myself from the start and I really feel that she got the best out of me. ¬†I think my comfort and happiness shows in the pictures – I hope you agree!

As part of the modelling school, you get to keep your pictures too which is fantastic for growing your portfolio, Juliet of Impact Modelling also gives lots of advice and tips for finding your feet in the modelling world.

I thoroughly enjoyed the day and it was fantastic to get advice and professional shots.  I highly recommend the modelling school, they run twice a year.  If you do go, remember to take your props!  Mine included;  flowers, bags (obvs), 4 changes of clothes, magazine and headphones.  I wanted to include things which represent my personality and my favourite shot is the one throwing the flowers in the air.

So get in front of the lens and don’t be afraid to be you, when you’re happy it shows in every picture.

Hope you like!

Photos courtesy of Griffin Photography and Model School by Impact Modelling

Debs Xo



Age is just a number…right!?

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So I’ve reached that all important milestone in my life, and it’s probably not what you’re thinking. ¬†In fact I’ve actually been putting off this ‘milestone’ for quite some time.

I actually realised I needed to start thinking about this when watching the X Factor and realised I was in the ‘overs’ category! ¬†I mean, come on! ¬†Over 25, wow you’re so over the hill, absolutely past it and my god why are you even thinking you’re still young!?

I’m now actually a few, well rather a lot, years past that now and so the time has come….yep thats right, I chose my first anti-wrinkle cream! ¬†Whoop! ¬†Que deflating balloon…!

A major part of my beauty routine is trying really hard to protect my face from the sun.  I wear make up most days with an spf and when I am on holiday I cover up with high factor, shades and a hat.  So in theory, my face will look pristine whilst the rest of me will look like a 100 year old piece of leather!  Nah, not really I do wear lots of fake tan with an spf and I do wear cream a lot on holiday.  However, despite my best efforts I have been noticing those dreadful (and dreaded) lines.

These dearest things seem to form in the laughter lines around your eyes in the corners especially and also what I like to call my ‘wtf’ line, right in middle of my forehead! ¬†Aren’t I lucky that my hated mono-brow from a teen has turned into a wtf line as an adult!

So time to do a little something to change up my routine and incorporate – drum roll – the anti wrinkle cream! NOooooooooooooo! ¬†I was on a mission, pretty packaging and non-greasy – this is really important as I cannot stand greasy creams and I proceed to put it on and swiftly take it off as I can’t stand waiting 8 hours for it to blend in, only for you to wash it off when you wake up anyway, plus I don’t think its fair to my hubby for him to be sleeping next to an eel – even if he may like that.

Oh and another factor Рthe cost.  Seeing as now this is going to be a staple Рdid I actually just say that?  My anti-wrinkle cream is now a staple!?  So yes it needs to be cost effective as I will probably end up dunking my whole head in it.

I recently came across the Garnier collection, whilst pursuing the anti-wrinkle section in my dark glasses and a very large hat.  What drew me initially was the very classy packaging Рdark red and the container is the perfect size for bathroom and for travelling.  The second was the cost Рsuch a good price and the price point is such that you can factor it into your regular beauty regime.

And now for the most important bit – is it good!? ¬†Well quite simply it’s fantastic! ¬†The cream is really lightweight, non greasy, super absorbent, smells lovely and leaves your skin feeling fresh and pampered. ¬†I have been using the cream now for about 8 weeks and I notice¬†a difference to my so called lines. ¬†They are fainter and less noticeable, especially when I am wearing make up.

I used to think that high street brands wouldn’t have that good as effect but this one is a great find. ¬†I think it looks super glam too! ¬†This one is definitely on the staples list and will sit nicely on my dressing table next to my dentures.

So seriously, for all those fellow ‘overs’ all is not lost, and this is more about preventative more than the fact that you are over the hill. ¬†It’s great to get into a routine of loving your skin and also trying to banish those wrinkles before they appear, once they are there it is much harder to get rid, than to be pro-active and stop them happening to start with.

Someone said this to me when I was in my early 20’s, when I was far too young to even consider what a wrinkle or even a beauty regime was. ¬†Mine included falling asleep with my make up on only to spend an hour trying to scrub it off in the morning along with having to wash all your pillows. ¬†Or if I was feeling really rebellious, I would stay in the make up, add some more and go back out!

So love your skin, treat it like you do any other part of your body.  It will always thank you for it.

Debs Xo









A Monochrome Moment


There is something so stylishly effortless and timeless about monochrome.

You can wear it formal or casual and still look super polished. ¬†I love that monochrome isn’t something which simply a trend or a fad. ¬†It’s something that has always been ‘in’ and in my opinion, always will be.


I styled this outfit last Sunday when I went to the Porthleven Food Festival in Cornwall.

My top is by AX Paris, the trousers are from Tu Clothing @ Sainsbury’s and my shoes are from Marks and Spencer. ¬†I really like the touch of snakeskin from the shoes which add a different dimension to the look. ¬†My sunnies are from Ebay. ¬†Funnily enough, I searched high and low for these over a year ago and they were so hard to find, however they seem to be everywhere now and I still love them very much.

I always like to style my outfits and give thought into what I wear, as much as anyone sometimes you don’t feel it or sometimes you just feel pants. ¬†This outfit instantly gave me a lift and a mood boost and I felt good in it. ¬†I went into the supermarket before we headed to the food festival and this lovely lady walked down my aisle and said “wow, I love your outfit, you look amazing!” she was so sweet and I felt very honoured. ¬†Plus isn’t it nice when a stranger compliments you? ¬†I’m all about paying it forward and moments of kindness. ¬†You could, without knowing it, make someone feel better and smile if they are having a bad day and that makes me feel happy.


We went to the food festival, and then headed to the beach where we did this mini shoot, isn’t it stunning? ¬†So lucky to have these kind of backdrops and opportunities to shoot amazing pictures. ¬†We then proceeded to have a nap to sleep off our food (as you do) and then headed back to the festival for the music.

I just love the balance between simplicity and style of this look. ¬†You look ‘made up’ without trying too hard but it’s comfortable and interesting at the same time. ¬†The top has a cold shoulder look with a bat wing effect, which adds a girly touch.


Not sure what that orange thing is photobombing my pic, but its not my prop!

Anyhoo, expect to see this outfit a few more times over the summer from me!  I may mix it up with different accessories and shoes too, thats the other beauty of monochrome, it goes with anything and you can add additional colour pops to it Рow especially with a handbag, how dare I forget!? (hmm not likely!).



Enjoy your weekend Sunshines!

Debs Xo